Sunday, August 9, 2009

喜欢和爱的区別

come across an interesting article this morning while surfing.

喜欢和爱的区別


喜欢是在深夜看书时突然想起他,想像他现在做甚么,心里漾起一阵温暖,却不主动给他打电话。几分钟后,注意力又重新被书中情节吸引。

爱是在寂寞夜里,思念如潮水般涌来,手里捧著书却怎么也看不进去,心里惦记著他此时是否还在加班,有没有吃晚饭,是不是如自己想著他一般想著自己。

喜欢是和他討论问题爭的面红耳赤,在他面前像刺蝟一样从不认输,但心里早已暗暗佩服他的见地和才华。

爱是希望他和自己步调一致,心灵相通,他无心说的一句玩笑话也能让自己顷刻情绪低落甚至眼泪汪汪。在他面前从不设防。

喜欢是出门在外给他发短信,告诉他这边的天气很好,然后把手机关掉,独自在异地疯玩一周,晒成一个黑人后突然出现在他面前嚇他一跳。

爱是无论到哪都希望有他陪伴。可以站在海边给他打手机,让他听听海浪声;也可以因为在异乡街道上看到一个酷似他的背影而愣在原地久久不动。

喜欢是他出差前简单的道声“一路平安”,看著他离去的背影,心中不捨却甚么也不说,只是默默等待他归来。

爱是他临出差前千叮嚀万嘱咐,往他的背包塞满衣服和食物,在车站要等到火车开走才肯离开。並且在他走后的日子里天天心神不定,一遍遍的祈祷他能够平安归来。

喜欢是在受伤时,不想让他看到自己脆弱的一面,在他面前把眼泪悄悄抹掉,转过头依然是快乐坚强的模样。

爱是在受委屈时,在他胸前痛哭,没偽装没顾虑,把烦恼统统告诉他,並渴望从他怀中得到安慰。

* courtesy of 星洲互动*

IMHO, as much as its illustrated the differences between like and love here, i would like to think love as something like analogue rather than digital. There is no clear measurement nor boundary. Where is the border than really separates LIKE and LOVE? Its more like a spectrum of rainbow. What do u think?






4 comments:

[SK] said...

i love that article you got from the paper.. well, love is a many splendid thing!! don't you agree?? haha :)

bluesoule said...

SK: yeah...love means different thing to different people..

Bryan D.C. said...

When i first read it...i thought it was u who wrote it...hahaha

Love and like...they're hardly clearly seperable...
Love comes from like? And u like what belongs to that person because you love that person?
Hmmmm...

bluesoule said...

bryan: oops sorry i definitely dont have such good writing skill LOL. i believe loves stems from a lot of liking to a particular person over a course of time. Then maybe someday suddenly sparks just fly and voila! U got love oledi haha..

or there could be also a scenario where love comes before like. eg love at first sight, or love to him/her because of the outer appearance is damn charming, i guess.