Friday, April 9, 2010

男人天生愛犯賤 Of being jerks



犯賤 is a cantonese word. I dont really know how to translate into English. Anyone here can help? The best I could think of is "to bring something onto yourself" or "u asked for it".

In relationship matters, there are quite alot of 犯賤 scenarios.

First and most common, a couple together for some time, whether married or unmarried, then one or both of them feel the partner is not good enough or he/she just want some additional fun factor, so here comes hookups and 3rd party. Common enough, i would say. 犯賤 case number 1.

U have a good looking face or nice body or attractive personality. People flock to u like bees to flowers. Easily u can switch partners or have multiple partners at the same time. Always looking for the someone better and better. Never satisfied with who-ever comes along. No one is good enough for you, ever. Another 犯賤 case.

There are people interested in U but u keep brushing them away because they are too "low", too easily-acquired. No challenge at all. Instead u try to flirt with someone u like but he/she never show a bit of interest in u. Never mind. U track him/her down. Call and sms everyday. Still no reply. U wait and wait. Until the next potential target comes along. 犯賤 case number 3.

U like somebody but secretly admire from afar. Hoping the cupid works its intended way and suddenly one day the person would notice u. Then one nice day ur heart breaks when u find out the person is no more single available. 犯賤 or not?

Anymore scenario u could think of? Are u or are u not 犯賤 too?

Happy Friday :)

13 comments:

Gratitude said...

case 1 ~ Fallacy of too much doc- malenurse role-playing? hehe
+Ant+

blue said...

@anton: u think too much oledi..keep ur fantasies to yourself la :P

the happy go lucky one said...

lol at anton's comment... hmm i think theres no simple answer to the relationship issue, one can always label the guys as 犯贱 if he doesnt conform to the norm (being playful, or refuse to settle for lesser), but to me, i think the partner of his, are responsible or 犯贱 also, as she/he knowing that its impossible love, and still 'asked for it'.
oppsss i donno what im talking abt *confused*

p/s: not sure if its the my computer problem, sometimes i have problem scrolling down ur blog wor, especially when i was stealing bone in my office :P
wish u have a nice week ahead

blue said...

@happy: yeah i agree in relationship matter there is no black and white. Perhaps im thinking too much also haha...

Thanks for pointing out the scrolling problem. Im not sure what is wrong, probably with the HTML coding which im not familiar at all. Its seem to stuck whenever i use Firefox but works ok with Opera browser. So at the mean time im switching back to simple template. ANyone here can help me? hehe..

U have a fabulous week too!

[SK] said...

someone treats you like nobody and showing no respect to you, and yet you still bang your head towards him/her, hoping one day you'll be loved..

blue said...

@SK: i think the only way to prevent oneself from keep drowning deeper is to constantly remind oneself the reality he/she is in. If we never wake up from this "dream", we would never notice other people coming our way.

Emo-Happiness said...

err...
People are like that..

Because when you are in heaven, you will search for hell.

life. That's it.. :P

Good luck , blue

blue said...

@emo: haha..good luck to u too mr.emo!

Chris said...

人有时候就是喜欢犯贱, 我也一样..

blue said...

@chris: 我又何嘗不是呢? 不過需要control下咯。不能時常都做犯賤男人:)

Terick Chia said...

我也是犯贱的其中一位。。。

blue said...

@Terick: 學習放下吧。。不是所有事情都值得堅持的。。保重

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